Only you can determine how long it will take to rebuild your marriage post affair!
You see, you can only rebuild your marriage after you have decided that it is worth saving in the first place.
If your spouse has damaged your marriage by having an extramarital affair your feelings of anger and betrayal can be so devastating that you might feel that your marriage is at an end.
At first, you cannot see how there is any way to rebuild your marriage post affair.
Here is this person who you trusted to keep their promised to love and be faithful to you forever now bringing such shame and hurt into your life.
The pain and heart-break that you feel cannot be measured and will for a time seem insurmountable.
The recurring images of them together is so hurtful that you might not even be able to speak to your spouse much less see yourself staying in your marriage.
How long will it take to rebuild your marriage post affair?
That question can only be answered after you have truly coped with the trauma of the affair, and that will take time and should NOT be rushed.
Just as with any grieving process, there are stages as you progress to closure.
Healing from your spouse’s cheating is no different, you must take the time you need to go through each step.
Then your cheating spouse must be willing and committed to helping you believe in them again, rebuild your self-esteem and recreate the intimacy in your marriage.
So, how long it will take to rebuild your marriage post affair will be contingent on at least two things:
- First you must decide to save your marriage
- Then you must work on feeling good about yourself and you spouse again
Can this be done? Yes! Many couples have been able to rebuild their marriage post affair and I am rooting for you being one of them.
I wish you healing in your marriage!
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